How to reach decision makers and get a meeting, even with a CEO
Updated By the SalesOne research team9 min read
The short answer
To reach decision makers, give them a reason they recognize: a dated change at their company and the problem it creates for their part of the business. Start with the person who owns that problem, keep the first message short with one easy question, and bring the executive in once the problem is confirmed.
Why is it hard to reach decision makers?
Decision makers ignore most outreach because most of it gives them no reason to reply, and because one person rarely decides alone.
- Irrelevance. In a Gartner survey of 632 B2B buyers (June 2025), 73% said they actively avoid suppliers who send irrelevant outreach.
- Pressure. In Hunter’s State of Email Outreach 2026, 65% of decision makers said cold emails fail because they feel too sales-focused.
- Groups, not individuals. A typical buying decision includes 13 internal stakeholders and nine external influencers, according to Forrester’s State of Business Buying 2026.
So reaching a decision maker is less about finding a back door and more about arriving with something worth their time. Who they are is covered in our guide to decision makers; finding their names and sources is covered in how to find decision makers in a company.
Who should you contact first?
Contact the person who owns the problem first, then the person who signs. One or two people per company at a time works better than writing to everyone.
| If the purchase | Contact first | Bring in next |
|---|---|---|
| Fits inside one department’s budget | The head of that department | The manager who will use it |
| Needs a new budget line | The person who owns the problem | The executive over the function, then finance |
| Spans several departments or sites | The executive sponsor, if one is visible; otherwise the most affected department head | An evaluator from each department |
| Is strategic for a small company | The CEO or founder | Whoever will run the project |
Hunter’s 2026 data supports a narrow start: contacting one or two people per company yielded a 5.1% reply rate, against 3.5% for three or more. Move to the next person when the first has not answered, not all at once.
What gives a decision maker a reason to reply?
A reason to reply is a recent, specific change at their company, the problem it creates for them, and a question they can answer quickly.
In Hunter’s 2026 report, 67% of decision makers said personalization using publicly available information makes them more likely to reply. The useful kind is not a compliment about a post. It is a dated event, such as a new site, a new leader, an acquisition or a project named in a job post, connected to the part of the business that person runs. Our guide to trigger events in sales lists the events worth watching.
How do you contact a decision maker?
Use the channel that carries your reason best: a short email for most first contacts, a call for a confirmed problem, and an introduction whenever someone can make one.
| Channel | Works best when | Watch out for |
|---|---|---|
| You have a dated reason and one question | Long messages and requests for 30 minutes in the first email | |
| Phone | They have replied, or the reason is urgent | Calling with nothing specific to say |
| Introduction | An investor, adviser, customer or former colleague knows them | Asking for an introduction without saying why it helps them |
| A professional network | They post or comment on the topic you can help with | Connection requests that open with a pitch |
| Events | They speak at or attend an event you go to | Pitching on the spot instead of asking for a follow-up |
Follow up, but not forever. Hunter found that three messages instead of one more than doubled total replies (6.8% against 3.3%). Our guide to sales follow-up emails has templates.
How do you get a meeting with a CEO?
Write to a CEO only when the topic is theirs: strategy, growth, risk or a change they announced. Tie the message to their own words and ask for little.
- Check that it is the CEO’s topic. At a small company most purchases are; at a large one, only strategic ones.
- Use their words. Quote a priority from their annual report, a press release or an interview, with the date.
- Say what changes for them in one sentence, not what you sell.
- Make the ask small: a question, or a short call on one topic.
- Offer a way down: “If this sits with someone else, who should I speak to?” A referral from the CEO’s office opens the right door.
- Use an introduction where you can. A board member, investor or shared customer carries more weight than any subject line.
How do you get past the gatekeeper?
Treat the gatekeeper as a helpful entry point, not an obstacle: be specific about why you are calling and ask who owns the topic.
- Say the reason in one sentence: “I am calling about the Dayton expansion permitted on September 12.”
- Ask a routing question: “Who looks after production planning for the new site?”
- Be honest about who you are. A gatekeeper who feels misled will not put you through next time.
- Thank them by name, and use their name when you call back.
How should you prepare for a meeting with a CEO?
Prepare one point of view about their business, the numbers behind it and a clear next step. A CEO meeting is short, so every minute needs a purpose.
- Their priorities in their own words, from the latest annual report, press release or interview.
- The change that brought you here, with its date and source.
- One hypothesis about what it means for them, and the question that would prove you wrong.
- Who else in the company owns the problem, so you can propose the next meeting.
- A time limit you keep, and one decision you ask for at the end.
Our account research checklist covers the research behind each point.
What does reaching a decision maker look like on one account?
Here is how an engineering firm reached the people who decide at one account. The company and its people are fictional.
| Day | Who | What happened |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Toledo plant manager (runs production today) | A 70-word email naming the Dayton expansion permit dated Sep 12, 2026, with one question about planning production across two sites |
| 4 | Toledo plant manager | A short follow-up with one useful detail about moving work between sites |
| 6 | Toledo plant manager | Replied: planning starts in spring, and COO Ruth Adeyemi will decide |
| 8 | Ruth Adeyemi, COO (named Aug 25, 2026; signs) | An email referring to the plant manager’s reply, asking for 20 minutes on the spring plan |
| 15 | COO and plant manager | Meeting held; CFO Gordon Hale to join the next one |
The seller never wrote to the CEO. The decision sat with the COO, and the plant manager’s reply gave the COO a reason to take the meeting.
How does SalesOne help you reach decision makers?
SalesOne is AI account research and qualification for B2B teams. S1 agents find the dated reason, then map the buying committee: who owns the problem, who signs and who can block it.
In SalesOne’s production research runs in October 2026, S1 agents mapped 4.2 people per kept account on average, 95% with a dated source. Outreach rules decide who on your team may contact whom. A person approves every message, and every approval is recorded with who gave it.
Sources
- Gartner press release: 61% of B2B buyers prefer a rep-free buying experience (Jun 25, 2025; 632 B2B buyers; read October 25, 2026) (opens in a new tab)gartner.com
- Forrester: The State of Business Buying, 2026 (press release, Jan 21, 2026; read October 25, 2026) (opens in a new tab)forrester.com
- Hunter: State of Email Outreach 2026 (31 million emails sent in 2025, plus recipient surveys; read October 25, 2026) (opens in a new tab)hunter.io